Wannabe’s and the real Deals.

Having spoken to so many different people from all parts of the world, I have been blessed with a gift that for some reason people tend to open up to me, and we usually get into deeper topics than not just any other.

“Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It’ll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called “perfection,” which will open the doors to the most important relationships you’ll ever be a part of.”
― Dan Pearce, Single Dad Laughing

I have come to a little annoyance with the fact that many people think that they need to please others, which usually expresses itself as people get stuck at one point or even unhappy. People are faking their real situations and lying to be honest, and that for no reason.

Why do you say that you are happy, when you really are not happy? Why do you buy an I-phone, if you really can not afford it? Why do you say that you are rich, when you are really poor? Why do you say you the top man, when really you´re just like any other…
There are so many other people out there that share the experiences of your own situation and they resonate with you, if you would only open up and talk to the close people around you, or even someone that you look up to, you will realise that we all share so many things in common and that most of us are not what we simply seem. Not just women to women or a man to a man. No, respect for us all, as the tough guy may turn out to be the sweetest being and the little angel to be the toughest. The true you is way more interesting and it would allow you to explore more what life indeed has to offer you.

“People wears a mask of lie so they look attractive , so be careful”
― Muhammad Saqib

Would you like to be lied to or deceived by the people that you meet and spend time with? I don’t think so.. This seems nothing really, but think about it if people lie about little things like that, what could be the bigger things that could be kept from us? To fix the big picture we have to work on the smaller parts of it first. Don’t you want to live in a tolerant and a caring surrounding, where you can be you and without having to hide or lie to anyone, as now it is apparent that you are not alone. So if something needs fixing, alone it is boring and it seems as if impossible, which is not true at all.. Find that someone in a friend or a stranger and share your journey with someone who cares.. don’t stop your evolution because of the social pressure to be someone who in reality you cannot become. Be the real you, embrace your flaws and learn from them.. Never give up perfecting yourself.

This is Your journey, nobody else’s!

Reach for Your best self and wear Your deepest scars with pride on your sleeves, because that is that magic potion what makes You really Beautiful. Don’t hide behind someone else’s insecurities.  There is something charming about realness, I guess it’s the confidence that surfaces from it.
Free yourself from the ones who feel the need to hide the true selves from you, and realise what a great feeling it is to be around people who are free and kind and open without any judgement from you to them nor them to you.

You, You need to Trust Yourself and Let Your Soul shine! Let it shine BRIGHT!


Peace and Love ❤

Kirsika Mühlberg
in Madrid,
27 of May 2016